Even if you are a Christian, I have concluded it depends on where you are---what is your context---how aware of Holy Week and the impending Easter you are. If you are a Christian and work in a mainly secular environment, you may be relatively unaware of Holy Week. For many it does not dawn on them until at least Thursday. And of course, in the secular world there is absolutely nothing special about Thursday.
But even in the secular world, Friday often assumes special connotations. It might be a holiday---a day off. It is at my College. So I suppose it is the one day Jews, Muslims, atheists, and other non-Christians are thankful for their Christian brothers and sisters! But for the Christian, Friday---Good Friday---is an interesting one.
I suspect that for many Christians Friday is simply skipped. They see Easter a very special and nothing else really matters. The resurrection is key for them. Why bother with anything less. Let’s skip sadness and depression and go straight for the joy and jubilation!
Even as a Christian, that quick move to Easter seems too easy. It seems to me to opt for a suffering-less Jesus, and by implication, a suffering-less world. Ever since I began studying some of this Christian faith (instead of just going to church because of family expectations), it seemed clear to me that you can’t have Sunday without Friday. In fact, the Romans and all the oppressors throughout the ages are all-to-real to be able to skip. There simply has been and is too much suffering to ignore.
Whatever Christianity is, I believe it is not an “ignoring religion.” In fact, none of the major religious traditions are “ignoring religions.” I am very aware that my Jewish sisters and brothers have already this week entered the Passover season. Passover is that annual remembering of the Jewish suffering in Egypt and God’s liberation of God’s people. Of course, they were liberated straight into the desert! But that is another story for another time.
But the Jewish Passover season may well hold the key to a proper understanding of the Christian Easter celebration. Rightly understood, I think Easter is its own story of liberation. In this case Christians would affirm the same liberating God chose a different way of doing it. Instead of a trip through the Red Sea, God in Jesus walked the via dolorosa (way of sorrow) straight to the cross.
You can’t get to Sunday without living (and dying) on Friday. Knowing this impacts me in a deep way. Who among us would not want to skip Friday and go straight to Sunday? But it does not work this way. The story of Easter is always the story of hope. But it must go through Friday. The desire to skip Friday is an option for illusion.
What is important for me this Holy Week and Easter---important again is how it grounds me in the deeper realities of my life. Sometimes, I think I live most of my life as if I were in Monday or Tuesday of Holy Week. I know my own Friday will come, but I put off thinking about it. I get too involved in my own little secular world to think about death, meaning, and ultimate purpose. I can even live my Wednesdays without much sense that Friday is looming.
Thankfully, these seasons of Passover and Holy Week are annual events. If I ignore or mess up this one, I get another chance next year---assuming my own Good Friday does not come.
So I want to resolve to pay attention. I want to pay attention to fact of oppression, the suffering in reality, and the story of love’s triumph. And then let me resolve always to be on love’s side!
May all be blessed; a new inspiration appears on Monday.