Because I spend a great deal of time with people, I tend to be fairly aware of what is going on with them. Sometimes they tell me and others what’s happening and other times I simply pay attention and they may “talk” with body language or other means. I certainly don’t have any special gifts or skills in this. I think I just pay more attention than many people. One of the facets of being human that fascinates me is what people hope for. It seems that humans tend to be creatures of hope. I have no clue whether we are genetically wired that way or if our environment---especially our American culture---shapes us to be hopeful. And I can imagine my own perception is warped by the kind of particular culture in which I live and spend most of my time. For example, much of my time is spent in a university setting and that surely is a place of significant hopes. Compare t...